| Bad mistakes. To paraphrase the late, great Freddie Mercury in "We Are the Champions," I've made more than a few. Don't get me wrong - things are great now. I've managed to make a wonderful living for me and my family, and we have the freedom to live life on our terms. But my journey from $37,000 to $2.7 million in just four years was no pleasure cruise. Today, I'd like to share with you the four most transformative moments of my trading life. I would've saved my family a TON of stress and heartache if I'd known then what I know now... But without the bitter defeats, I wouldn't have learned to appreciate the victories. If you're struggling or feeling lost - or if you simply want more chances to find winning trades - I hope this helps. No. 1: The Hole in the Wall The darkest day in my trading career came about a decade ago. A little backstory: My full-time job at the time was renovating stores like McDonald's and Home Depot. It required me to work all day and take calls all night... and I sometimes had to be away from my family for a week at a time. It wasn't fulfilling... and it certainly wasn't lucrative. My family was counting on me to provide for them, and money was getting tight. So I decided to give trading a try. One day I heard some "expert" on TV going on and on about how Apple (Nasdaq: AAPL) was going to have its best quarter ever and crush earnings expectations. So, thinking nothing could possibly go wrong, I loaded up! Well, as fate would have it, Apple MISSED on earnings... and my trade quickly turned against me. It kept dropping... And dropping... And dropping... Until I'd lost everything. $15,000... GONE. That's right... We were already in a tough spot financially, and then I threw away 15 grand on an earnings event (which I now know is basically a coin flip!). I felt like a complete failure... I was so furious with myself that I punched a hole in the wall next to my desk! And for the next two years, that hole served as a daily reminder of how naive and shortsighted I'd been. I knew that if I was going to survive as a trader, something had to change. No. 2: The Community I'm a naturally independent person. I take pride in being able to figure things out on my own. But by this point, I was out of options. I had to ask for help. So I joined an online trading community. And the instant I joined... I was floored. For the first time in my trading career, I felt like I wasn't alone. It turned out there were thousands of other people out there longing to create better lives for themselves through trading - just like I was. We shared our ideas, goals and aspirations... we congratulated each other on our winning trades... and together, we learned the importance of finding a winning system and sticking to it. It took some time... but I started to believe in myself again. Before long, I went from humbly asking questions to confidently answering questions. And I even began to develop my own trading strategy. (If you want to skip ahead and learn more about my strategy, go here.) There's truly nothing better than a community of people committed to helping one another achieve a common goal. I know for a fact I wouldn't be where I am today if I hadn't found one. |
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